"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What the **** is wrong with me?

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Man, some chick I dig had been saying hi to me in the hallways recently, but then when I go to class and I freeze up or procrastinate and don't do anything..This shouldn't be happening, since I've been with a couple of chicks lately and I havent' had these kind of problems...

You see, I got her sister's approval and girls network, and so she probably gave good word or something because she's been....kind.

What the f*ck should I do besides read the bible and meet more chicks, because I interact with many girls, but this one seems to keep me stuck in the mud...Overall it's probably just my mindset or I'm exhausted at the end of the day when I can actually talk to her...But no excuses...I need some words of encouragement..or soemthing..flame me, make me wake up and get out of this f*cking hole and maybe into hers.:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Assume she's waiting for you to say somethign to her, and she likes you. Get her # then leave, wlalk up (I assume you've talekd to her first.) ask her for her number then LEAVE get out of their. Call her then when YOU'R ready.

AND don't name your posts "what the **** is wrong with me"
 
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tomorrow is the day I get her number and ****.

I've been procrastinating and making too many excuses for not talking to her. I have to seize the day...
 
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you are placing too much importance on this one little interaction you're going to have with her.

noone is going to give a sh1t if you talk to her. not you, not her, nobody.
 
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haha.. the reason is because you are putting too much value on her. I'm not saying you've got oneitis cuz you've been here a while and you're smart, what I'm saying is you like her so much, you are afraid to do the wrong thing. Just try and reme,ber a time when you two where really hitting it off in convo or kino right when you start second guessing (if you haven't with her yet, the recall a past chick)

MoAF!!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah, thats it. It's like I place more value on her. And I hate that sh*t, and I even ignored her ass for a couple of weeks just so I could kill my IL with her, but it hasn't F*CKING DIED!!! Something is telling me that this is the chick I should try to find a relationship with. We've talked and from what it seems we're both real laid back because when I we talk it isn't a full blown discussion but we're just like whatever. She is a quiet and somewhat laid back type of chick and thats what I like out of a girl the most. I need to quit f*cking around and just f*cking do it I guess. I've gotten more numbers this month than in the past year, I've been more talkative with the ladies. But when it comes to her it's hard for me to even converse with her because I feel like I'm gonna f*ck up. And also, her best friend used to be my GF last year and they're always together and I don't wanna talk to my ex-GF because she's a stupid bastard and is jealous because the future Mrs. Don Juan is noticing me and how much more of an improved son of a mu****ing b*tch I am compared to the AFC Dimebag from the year before...
 
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