"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What the **** is wrong with me?

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Man, some chick I dig had been saying hi to me in the hallways recently, but then when I go to class and I freeze up or procrastinate and don't do anything..This shouldn't be happening, since I've been with a couple of chicks lately and I havent' had these kind of problems...

You see, I got her sister's approval and girls network, and so she probably gave good word or something because she's been....kind.

What the f*ck should I do besides read the bible and meet more chicks, because I interact with many girls, but this one seems to keep me stuck in the mud...Overall it's probably just my mindset or I'm exhausted at the end of the day when I can actually talk to her...But no excuses...I need some words of encouragement..or soemthing..flame me, make me wake up and get out of this f*cking hole and maybe into hers.:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Assume she's waiting for you to say somethign to her, and she likes you. Get her # then leave, wlalk up (I assume you've talekd to her first.) ask her for her number then LEAVE get out of their. Call her then when YOU'R ready.

AND don't name your posts "what the **** is wrong with me"
 
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tomorrow is the day I get her number and ****.

I've been procrastinating and making too many excuses for not talking to her. I have to seize the day...
 
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you are placing too much importance on this one little interaction you're going to have with her.

noone is going to give a sh1t if you talk to her. not you, not her, nobody.
 
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haha.. the reason is because you are putting too much value on her. I'm not saying you've got oneitis cuz you've been here a while and you're smart, what I'm saying is you like her so much, you are afraid to do the wrong thing. Just try and reme,ber a time when you two where really hitting it off in convo or kino right when you start second guessing (if you haven't with her yet, the recall a past chick)

MoAF!!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah, thats it. It's like I place more value on her. And I hate that sh*t, and I even ignored her ass for a couple of weeks just so I could kill my IL with her, but it hasn't F*CKING DIED!!! Something is telling me that this is the chick I should try to find a relationship with. We've talked and from what it seems we're both real laid back because when I we talk it isn't a full blown discussion but we're just like whatever. She is a quiet and somewhat laid back type of chick and thats what I like out of a girl the most. I need to quit f*cking around and just f*cking do it I guess. I've gotten more numbers this month than in the past year, I've been more talkative with the ladies. But when it comes to her it's hard for me to even converse with her because I feel like I'm gonna f*ck up. And also, her best friend used to be my GF last year and they're always together and I don't wanna talk to my ex-GF because she's a stupid bastard and is jealous because the future Mrs. Don Juan is noticing me and how much more of an improved son of a mu****ing b*tch I am compared to the AFC Dimebag from the year before...
 
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