"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What the HELL??? My rant about women who love FOOTBALL
- Thread starter STR8UP
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Here is the thing...YOU chooce to sit through all the chick flicks, and to listen to the gossip and all that crap. YOUR choice as nobody was putting a gun to your head.insanity said:
Now...I do believe men and women must have some 'space'. Nothing better than watching a football game alone, while she is either cleaning the house or gossiping with her girlfriends or doing girly stuff.
You don't need to add "competiveness" in the relationship. Leave that for when you are playing dominoes or cards or table games.
And you don't want to surrender the "with the guys watching the game" element either.
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She's probably into the emotional high of cheering for a team more than the actual sport. Ask her what a 46 defense is.STR8UP said:
I'd rather have a girl I can take to a game who won't be sitting there on her cellphone the whole time. If you want a super-femi girl, then dump the one you're with. Or date another girl behind her back.
Vulpine
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What is WRONG is when a woman evaluates the relationship based on her partner's lack of interest for the same sport. Same goes with men valuing women on how much she dislikes sports.