"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What The Hell Am I Doing -- You Ever Get Like This?

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c'mon Gio maybe he used the search function :p It would be better if more people used it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: Re: Re: What The Hell Am I Doing -- You Ever Get Like This?

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Wow, with a statement THAT profound it's no wonder at all why you drug up a seven month old thread!
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If you didn't want new replies you should have closed this thread mister sweetness.

"I wonder where this bitterness comes from."
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: What The Hell Am I Doing -- You Ever Get Like This?

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
If you didn't want new replies you should have closed this thread mister sweetness.

"I wonder where this bitterness comes from."
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I guess I just figured that you would be smart enough to figure out that this thread was seven months old. It wouldn't have even been so bad if you had actually said anything, like, insightful or something. But let's be serious for a second... you didn't.

I'll let you get back to your New Kids on the Block and Crystal Pepsi now.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: What The Hell Am I Doing -- You Ever Get Like This?

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I guess I just figured that you would be smart enough to figure out that this thread was seven months old. It wouldn't have even been so bad if you had actually said anything, like, insightful or something. But let's be serious for a second... you didn't.

I'll let you get back to your New Kids on the Block and Crystal Pepsi now.
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Excuses, you're full of excuses. Anyway, the only thing I did was to give a bump to your thread! You act as if I was insulting someone or hijacking a thread.
 
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In general, it's lame to open old threads and to respond to them like it's current.

If you want to talk about something current, then post a new thread but to post something like

"aha! so you blah, blah blah!!!!"

to a thread that's months old is just freaking lame.

I've PM'd you about this already. Move on.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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