So today, everybody has been coming up to me asking who I lost my virginity to. I'm still a virgin, but I told this one chick that I wasn't (if you haven't been reading my journal), and I guess the entire school thinks I'm not a virgin! I don't really like living a lie, but I do like at least getting SOME attention. Anyways, we were walking down the stairs to the parking lot with the girl (who I told I wasn't a virgin), and I was walking down next to her friend and she, out of nowhere, asked if I could take her virginity! First off, I was blown away, not knowing if she was joking or being serious, so I said really? And she was like "yeah", I wasn't trying to be serious or anything, so I was like, well lets have our friend set it up for us. That was all that was said, BUT I CAN'T GET IT OUT OF MY MIND! She is pretty attractive, but I am just completely blown away and in total shock! Was she joking or what, I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO SHE IS! WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE!?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What the heck?
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