What the heck happened, where'd i go wrong?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Ok heres the whole pan of things:

met this chick back home at a bar, turns out she goes to the same uni. that i have now transferred too. So its a big plus for rapport. I get up here, call her once or twice, eventually we get out. We went for dinner, we both paid our share, conversation WAS REALLY good, lots of kino, interesting,intelligent,etc. We came back to my place cause she wanted me to burn one of my cd's.(roomates were here, couldnt really get into that mode). I knocked on her a lil, and was funny too, and c&f. Everything was going really smooth, except we didnt do anything physical.

Now...We talked like 2 days later, i called, she wanted to meet up but i couldnt, and she was going back home for the weekend.

THAT WAS IT. Its been over a week and i havent spoke to her, I've tried calling, no answer. WTF, even if i made mistakes on the date, things went so well, it shouldnt be this bad. What happened, this chick must've had a bf?

 

[Albion10]

Ok heres the whole pan of things:

met this chick back home at a bar, turns out she goes to the same uni. that i have now transferred too. So its a big plus for rapport. I get up here, call her once or twice, eventually we get out. We went for dinner, we both paid our share, conversation WAS REALLY good, lots of kino, interesting,intelligent,etc. We came back to my place cause she wanted me to burn one of my cd's.(roomates were here, couldnt really get into that mode). I knocked on her a lil, and was funny too, and c&f. Everything was going really smooth, except we didnt do anything physical.

Now...We talked like 2 days later, i called, she wanted to meet up but i couldnt, and she was going back home for the weekend.

THAT WAS IT. Its been over a week and i havent spoke to her, I've tried calling, no answer. WTF, even if i made mistakes on the date, things went so well, it shouldnt be this bad. What happened, this chick must've had a bf?

Don't think to deeply into it, maybe she just didn't like your smell. Maybe she found you a little too ****y and funny (Thanks Dave). Who knows, but if you sit and dwell on it you're not going to be able to do what you should do... move on.

-Al

 

[lYlasTer]

Most likely what happened is she lost interest after she wanted to meet up with you. You started off strong, but you couldn't finish the deal. She gave yo another chance by wanting to meet up with you the second time, which didn't happen.

If you're not moving forward with a girl, you're going backwards. Who knows, she could've met another guy in that time period. That's why I think men should be more aggressive once she's attracted and try to seal the deal.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

ya ive still managed to move on, im still approaching chicks, but this one will baffle me. I'll give her another call or two then i'll have to move on.