"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the heck happened, where'd i go wrong?

gimmeyofonenumba

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Ok heres the whole pan of things:

met this chick back home at a bar, turns out she goes to the same uni. that i have now transferred too. So its a big plus for rapport. I get up here, call her once or twice, eventually we get out. We went for dinner, we both paid our share, conversation WAS REALLY good, lots of kino, interesting,intelligent,etc. We came back to my place cause she wanted me to burn one of my cd's.(roomates were here, couldnt really get into that mode). I knocked on her a lil, and was funny too, and c&f. Everything was going really smooth, except we didnt do anything physical.

Now...We talked like 2 days later, i called, she wanted to meet up but i couldnt, and she was going back home for the weekend.

THAT WAS IT. Its been over a week and i havent spoke to her, I've tried calling, no answer. WTF, even if i made mistakes on the date, things went so well, it shouldnt be this bad. What happened, this chick must've had a bf?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Ok heres the whole pan of things:

met this chick back home at a bar, turns out she goes to the same uni. that i have now transferred too. So its a big plus for rapport. I get up here, call her once or twice, eventually we get out. We went for dinner, we both paid our share, conversation WAS REALLY good, lots of kino, interesting,intelligent,etc. We came back to my place cause she wanted me to burn one of my cd's.(roomates were here, couldnt really get into that mode). I knocked on her a lil, and was funny too, and c&f. Everything was going really smooth, except we didnt do anything physical.

Now...We talked like 2 days later, i called, she wanted to meet up but i couldnt, and she was going back home for the weekend.

THAT WAS IT. Its been over a week and i havent spoke to her, I've tried calling, no answer. WTF, even if i made mistakes on the date, things went so well, it shouldnt be this bad. What happened, this chick must've had a bf?
Don't think to deeply into it, maybe she just didn't like your smell. Maybe she found you a little too ****y and funny (Thanks Dave). Who knows, but if you sit and dwell on it you're not going to be able to do what you should do... move on.

-Al
 

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Most likely what happened is she lost interest after she wanted to meet up with you. You started off strong, but you couldn't finish the deal. She gave yo another chance by wanting to meet up with you the second time, which didn't happen.

If you're not moving forward with a girl, you're going backwards. Who knows, she could've met another guy in that time period. That's why I think men should be more aggressive once she's attracted and try to seal the deal.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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ya ive still managed to move on, im still approaching chicks, but this one will baffle me. I'll give her another call or two then i'll have to move on.
 
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