DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
There are a number of Don Juan chicks on this site, what are they trying to learn to be DJ's too or what?? 
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What the heck are girls doing on this site???
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
lookin for men ? hahaha
well most of us stumble in here and we just dont leave
read the bible
well most of us stumble in here and we just dont leave
read the bible
ImpatientFire
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well I'm a dude and I check out cosmo sumtimes to see what it's like on the other side and to see if I can learn sumthin. I guess it's the same with them.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
penkitten r u a girl?
Whats the big deal?!?!
And to tell the truth... I’m getting sick of you guys complaining about girls coming here... who the f*ck cares if there are women here? let them stay, let them have their say, and its nice to get input from the "other side" once in a while too... so just leave them be!:cuss: they have every right to be here, nowhere does it say in the bible, or anywhere on this site that women are not allowed here, so accept that there are some women on these forums, and instead of b!tching about them, try benefit from them/their knowledge.
Laterz...
yes she is...
And to tell the truth... I’m getting sick of you guys complaining about girls coming here... who the f*ck cares if there are women here? let them stay, let them have their say, and its nice to get input from the "other side" once in a while too... so just leave them be!:cuss: they have every right to be here, nowhere does it say in the bible, or anywhere on this site that women are not allowed here, so accept that there are some women on these forums, and instead of b!tching about them, try benefit from them/their knowledge.
Laterz...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Re: Whats the big deal?!?!
I wasn't BlTCHING I was just wondering. So stfu u feminist dumbass :moon:
*yawn*
PM i got from DJ_in_making:
Anyways... this thread is pointless, anyone with common sence would figure out what women are doing on this site/forum.
Oh... and yes, there have been several threads that I found rather interesting where the FEMALES on this forum cleared up some stuff for me.
P.S.: My +-1500 posts doesn’t mean anything in regards to me having a life or not, and trust me, I have TOO MUCH of a life, as some of my friends put it:woo:
Laterz...
PM i got from DJ_in_making:
hmm.. so if this thread isnt *****ing, then why is it titled "what the heck are girls doing on this site???" ... looks to me like you ARE *****ing
Anyways... this thread is pointless, anyone with common sence would figure out what women are doing on this site/forum.
Oh... and yes, there have been several threads that I found rather interesting where the FEMALES on this forum cleared up some stuff for me.
P.S.: My +-1500 posts doesn’t mean anything in regards to me having a life or not, and trust me, I have TOO MUCH of a life, as some of my friends put it:woo:
Laterz...
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Re: *yawn*
I'm glad you felt the need to make the message public congratulations. If I was b*tching, I wouldn't exactly have the confused smiley would I? Anyway f*ck off and go play mr. equal rights somewhere else.:kick:
*common senseOriginally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
PM i got from DJ_in_making:
hmm.. so if this thread isnt *****ing, then why is it titled "what the heck are girls doing on this site???" ... looks to me like you ARE *****ing
Anyways... this thread is pointless, anyone with common sence would figure out what women are doing on this site/forum.
Oh... and yes, there have been several threads that I found rather interesting where the FEMALES on this forum cleared up some stuff for me.
P.S.: My +-1500 posts doesn’t mean anything in regards to me having a life or not, and trust me, I have TOO MUCH of a life, as some of my friends put it:woo:
Laterz...
I'm glad you felt the need to make the message public congratulations. If I was b*tching, I wouldn't exactly have the confused smiley would I? Anyway f*ck off and go play mr. equal rights somewhere else.:kick:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Isn't anyone gonna comment on the fact that a woman told a guy to "read the bible?" I think that was funny as hell!
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DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
yea, I didn't really get that.....Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Isn't anyone gonna comment on the fact that a woman told a guy to "read the bible?" I think that's as funny as hell!
[]D [] []V[] []D
Senior Don Juan
haha... before i thought only guys were on this site/forum
So when some person said "whats wrong with hitting on a guy?" or something on the lines of that.... and i didnt know better so i said...
WTF! are you a fag or something... if you wanna hit on guys... go somewhere else, this is www.sosuave.com not....
www.sogaysuave.com!
Ehh? ehh??
:crackup:
So when some person said "whats wrong with hitting on a guy?" or something on the lines of that.... and i didnt know better so i said...
WTF! are you a fag or something... if you wanna hit on guys... go somewhere else, this is www.sosuave.com not....
www.sogaysuave.com!
Ehh? ehh??
:crackup:
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
:crackup: ......crazy
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
how are you gonna fool yourself that women won't come to this site?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
I think you guys are not realizing that at time women can give very valuable advice. When you guys post questions such as "if a girl does this what does it mean?" or "if a girl says this...what does it mean?" only women know the answers to those questions because we are misleading and selfish at times, so misleading that instead of saying "go fck off, i'd never hang out with you" we say "yeah, I'll give you a call when I'm not busy". So please, be grateful that girls on this site are wiling to say it as it is because they have NO idea who you are and they themselves might have regrets of not being 100% honest to a guy before.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Re: *sigh*
Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Welcome to the forum, HeartlessBtch
I'm not saying a word....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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