"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What the **** happened?

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met this girl in the internet (msn), we exchanged pics, we chatted for some time and eventually we set up a date.everything was fine, we went to the movies, dinner (split bills) and in the cinema we kissed a lot (lots of kino too), i took her home all went well...

Until 2 days later, she stopped calling, messaging, she was always busy in the msn messenger and i needed to force her talking to me... sent her 3 messages yesterday to the cell phone and even called her, she said she didnt get any calls or messages, this isnt normal, she didnt answer the phone but the calls were there for her to check. The strangest thing is 3 hours later " good morning cutie, whats up? you havent said anything in days, i dont understand you you know?say something when u can, kisses" - she sent me this message to the phone.

One thing i notice is the only way to make her talk to me is to show her that's not acting ok with me, that she is different from what she was when we met.

do i sense she thought she's into me but someone or something made her change her mind?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you waited two days and called 3 or 4 times in that span? if you've read anything on this site you know better than that.

she probably got your message but you are fun for her to play with because you buy it hook line and sinker.

if you are going to keep with this girl then cut down your dependence on her for happiness. This will result in you calling her less and ultimately behaving correctly.
 
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i didnt call her you got me wrong mate, i tried to talk to her in msn, i only called her yesterday morning to know what was wrong with her. after the date she told she enjoyed a lot being with me, she enjoyed my kisses, my kino, that im tender and she was thinking about dating me but that we had to talk more deeply about the subject.
 
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Maybe she is busy with someone else? If she likes you she'll contact you - forcing it has the opposite effect. I personally think this fish has got away.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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