"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What the **** happened?

NeedToImprove

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met this girl in the internet (msn), we exchanged pics, we chatted for some time and eventually we set up a date.everything was fine, we went to the movies, dinner (split bills) and in the cinema we kissed a lot (lots of kino too), i took her home all went well...

Until 2 days later, she stopped calling, messaging, she was always busy in the msn messenger and i needed to force her talking to me... sent her 3 messages yesterday to the cell phone and even called her, she said she didnt get any calls or messages, this isnt normal, she didnt answer the phone but the calls were there for her to check. The strangest thing is 3 hours later " good morning cutie, whats up? you havent said anything in days, i dont understand you you know?say something when u can, kisses" - she sent me this message to the phone.

One thing i notice is the only way to make her talk to me is to show her that's not acting ok with me, that she is different from what she was when we met.

do i sense she thought she's into me but someone or something made her change her mind?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you waited two days and called 3 or 4 times in that span? if you've read anything on this site you know better than that.

she probably got your message but you are fun for her to play with because you buy it hook line and sinker.

if you are going to keep with this girl then cut down your dependence on her for happiness. This will result in you calling her less and ultimately behaving correctly.
 

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i didnt call her you got me wrong mate, i tried to talk to her in msn, i only called her yesterday morning to know what was wrong with her. after the date she told she enjoyed a lot being with me, she enjoyed my kisses, my kino, that im tender and she was thinking about dating me but that we had to talk more deeply about the subject.
 

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Maybe she is busy with someone else? If she likes you she'll contact you - forcing it has the opposite effect. I personally think this fish has got away.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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