A girl i work with that I was getting kind of close to asks a wierd question and I wasnt really sure what game she was playing. First of all the conversation was about sex, the size of my ****, different positions, how many GF's ive had etc etc. Then she asks, so if we are still friends by then do you want to come to my wedding? Shes brought up her BF before and how hes in jail for violating probation so it wasnt new to me but Im just kind of confused about what she was getting at. My response was, sure I would love to come to your wedding which was probably a mistake but after I answered she then said, are you sure you reall wanna come because my uncle and my sister will be there. I know both of them and am cool with them so im not sure why she said that either. Someone clue me in on this womaneese?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What test is this?
- Thread starter Skel
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's not ********. It's conversation. She might have been bored and just trying to break the monotony with silly questions. Who knows?
She has a boyfriend, but if you still want to venture there, ask her flat out if she wants to get together after work. If you don't want to do that then have fun having mundane conversation, trying to figure out what she "means" by everything, and passing off your misunderstanding of casual conversation for "********"
She has a boyfriend, but if you still want to venture there, ask her flat out if she wants to get together after work. If you don't want to do that then have fun having mundane conversation, trying to figure out what she "means" by everything, and passing off your misunderstanding of casual conversation for "********"
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Maybe she wants one last screw before she gets married. 
Find out. Analyzing women is counterproductive. Act and you will get an unmistakable answer.
Find out. Analyzing women is counterproductive. Act and you will get an unmistakable answer.