A girl i work with that I was getting kind of close to asks a wierd question and I wasnt really sure what game she was playing. First of all the conversation was about sex, the size of my ****, different positions, how many GF's ive had etc etc. Then she asks, so if we are still friends by then do you want to come to my wedding? Shes brought up her BF before and how hes in jail for violating probation so it wasnt new to me but Im just kind of confused about what she was getting at. My response was, sure I would love to come to your wedding which was probably a mistake but after I answered she then said, are you sure you reall wanna come because my uncle and my sister will be there. I know both of them and am cool with them so im not sure why she said that either. Someone clue me in on this womaneese?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What test is this?
- Thread starter Skel
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's not ********. It's conversation. She might have been bored and just trying to break the monotony with silly questions. Who knows?
She has a boyfriend, but if you still want to venture there, ask her flat out if she wants to get together after work. If you don't want to do that then have fun having mundane conversation, trying to figure out what she "means" by everything, and passing off your misunderstanding of casual conversation for "********"
She has a boyfriend, but if you still want to venture there, ask her flat out if she wants to get together after work. If you don't want to do that then have fun having mundane conversation, trying to figure out what she "means" by everything, and passing off your misunderstanding of casual conversation for "********"
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Maybe she wants one last screw before she gets married. 
Find out. Analyzing women is counterproductive. Act and you will get an unmistakable answer.
Find out. Analyzing women is counterproductive. Act and you will get an unmistakable answer.