A girl i work with that I was getting kind of close to asks a wierd question and I wasnt really sure what game she was playing. First of all the conversation was about sex, the size of my ****, different positions, how many GF's ive had etc etc. Then she asks, so if we are still friends by then do you want to come to my wedding? Shes brought up her BF before and how hes in jail for violating probation so it wasnt new to me but Im just kind of confused about what she was getting at. My response was, sure I would love to come to your wedding which was probably a mistake but after I answered she then said, are you sure you reall wanna come because my uncle and my sister will be there. I know both of them and am cool with them so im not sure why she said that either. Someone clue me in on this womaneese?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What test is this?
- Thread starter Skel
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's not ********. It's conversation. She might have been bored and just trying to break the monotony with silly questions. Who knows?
She has a boyfriend, but if you still want to venture there, ask her flat out if she wants to get together after work. If you don't want to do that then have fun having mundane conversation, trying to figure out what she "means" by everything, and passing off your misunderstanding of casual conversation for "********"
She has a boyfriend, but if you still want to venture there, ask her flat out if she wants to get together after work. If you don't want to do that then have fun having mundane conversation, trying to figure out what she "means" by everything, and passing off your misunderstanding of casual conversation for "********"
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Maybe she wants one last screw before she gets married. 
Find out. Analyzing women is counterproductive. Act and you will get an unmistakable answer.
Find out. Analyzing women is counterproductive. Act and you will get an unmistakable answer.