"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What Subject Do You and Your Girlfriend Argue About the Most?

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After reading this forum for nearly 3 years I've finally decided to join the party:D ....

I would have to say that me and my girlfriend usually fight about me being too busy for her or her flirtacious behavior. Which I (hopefully) have set straight. So I'm just curious..What do you and your partner usually argue about?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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does most recent ex count since I dont have one?

If so, it was sex. She didn't want to have it until marriage. I thought otherwise. Now we're not together. And I'm still a virgin. So yeah. Looks like I lost that argument.

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It was about me "not caring". Why women assume you don't care if you're not gushing all over her is beyond me.
 
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Funny how I start most of the fights. She'd bend over (to me) any time, but when I am displeased, I let it be known. Used to be about all kinds of trivial crap, until I got a grip on myself and stopped taking her for granted.

I don't even remember the shít we fought over.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I dunno we fight over all kinds of stupid sh!t. Sometimes even over the smallest things would cause a big argument. Its been like that atleast 2 a week for the past 4 months out of 9. :p I always seem to win though so yea..
 
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