"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What Subject Do You and Your Girlfriend Argue About the Most?

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Sonny SixShooter

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After reading this forum for nearly 3 years I've finally decided to join the party:D ....

I would have to say that me and my girlfriend usually fight about me being too busy for her or her flirtacious behavior. Which I (hopefully) have set straight. So I'm just curious..What do you and your partner usually argue about?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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does most recent ex count since I dont have one?

If so, it was sex. She didn't want to have it until marriage. I thought otherwise. Now we're not together. And I'm still a virgin. So yeah. Looks like I lost that argument.

Alexi
 
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It was about me "not caring". Why women assume you don't care if you're not gushing all over her is beyond me.
 
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Funny how I start most of the fights. She'd bend over (to me) any time, but when I am displeased, I let it be known. Used to be about all kinds of trivial crap, until I got a grip on myself and stopped taking her for granted.

I don't even remember the shít we fought over.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dunno we fight over all kinds of stupid sh!t. Sometimes even over the smallest things would cause a big argument. Its been like that atleast 2 a week for the past 4 months out of 9. :p I always seem to win though so yea..
 
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