Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Subject Do You and Your Girlfriend Argue About the Most?

Sonny SixShooter

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After reading this forum for nearly 3 years I've finally decided to join the party:D ....

I would have to say that me and my girlfriend usually fight about me being too busy for her or her flirtacious behavior. Which I (hopefully) have set straight. So I'm just curious..What do you and your partner usually argue about?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sfalexi

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does most recent ex count since I dont have one?

If so, it was sex. She didn't want to have it until marriage. I thought otherwise. Now we're not together. And I'm still a virgin. So yeah. Looks like I lost that argument.

Alexi
 

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It was about me "not caring". Why women assume you don't care if you're not gushing all over her is beyond me.
 

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Funny how I start most of the fights. She'd bend over (to me) any time, but when I am displeased, I let it be known. Used to be about all kinds of trivial crap, until I got a grip on myself and stopped taking her for granted.

I don't even remember the shít we fought over.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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I dunno we fight over all kinds of stupid sh!t. Sometimes even over the smallest things would cause a big argument. Its been like that atleast 2 a week for the past 4 months out of 9. :p I always seem to win though so yea..
 
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