Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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I am infinitely glad that of all the myriad bands mentioned here, I only know the Doors, Manowar and Dragonforce.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Not really when you look at the dates of the posts.Crazy to see a lot of the mid-2000s hip hop in this thread.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Very nice. I'm a music phene, so always looking to add new songs to the playlist.In all seriousness, I recommend Australian or Swedish early punk
Nomads - Hadware (a few beers and their song “Surfin’ in the Bars” makes me either want to fight or F*ck)
Other suggestions (and keep in mind that I’m old)
Saints - (I’m) Stranded
Lime Spiders - Slave Girl EP
Radio Birdman - Radios Appear
And anything from the earlier period from the group “New Christs”
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hahaha 2000's musicThis is what I listen before going out, I put the speakers on very loud when I get out of the shower and turn it off when I walk out of the house:
Dre feat Knock-Turnal - Bad Intentions (this is the sh!t)
Ludacris - Rollout
Ludacris - Area Codes (I got hoes)
50cent - Outta Control (the video version)
Bob Marley - No woman no cry (live version)
2pac feat Dre - California Love
2pac feat Snoop - 2 of americaz most wanted
Ciara feat Ludacris - Oh
Jay-Z - Heart of the city (live version)
Lil' Flip - Rollin on 20's
Jet - Are you gonna be my girl
Limp Bizkit - Rollin
Mystical - Edge of the blade
NTM - Ma benzzz (some french rappers)
P.Diddy Feat Ginuwine Loon Mario Winans & Tammy Ruggeri - I Need A Girl Part II
The Chemical Brothers - Galvanize
The Streets - Fit but you know it
Shaggy - Hey sexy lady
X-Zibit - Alchoholic
Ying Yang twins - Wait (The Whisper Song)
And some other Romanian music, mostly hip-hop.
All this song make me feel like the most important man in the world and they also fill me up with energy and chicks love me![]()