Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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I am infinitely glad that of all the myriad bands mentioned here, I only know the Doors, Manowar and Dragonforce.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not really when you look at the dates of the posts.Crazy to see a lot of the mid-2000s hip hop in this thread.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Very nice. I'm a music phene, so always looking to add new songs to the playlist.In all seriousness, I recommend Australian or Swedish early punk
Nomads - Hadware (a few beers and their song “Surfin’ in the Bars” makes me either want to fight or F*ck)
Other suggestions (and keep in mind that I’m old)
Saints - (I’m) Stranded
Lime Spiders - Slave Girl EP
Radio Birdman - Radios Appear
And anything from the earlier period from the group “New Christs”
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hahaha 2000's musicThis is what I listen before going out, I put the speakers on very loud when I get out of the shower and turn it off when I walk out of the house:
Dre feat Knock-Turnal - Bad Intentions (this is the sh!t)
Ludacris - Rollout
Ludacris - Area Codes (I got hoes)
50cent - Outta Control (the video version)
Bob Marley - No woman no cry (live version)
2pac feat Dre - California Love
2pac feat Snoop - 2 of americaz most wanted
Ciara feat Ludacris - Oh
Jay-Z - Heart of the city (live version)
Lil' Flip - Rollin on 20's
Jet - Are you gonna be my girl
Limp Bizkit - Rollin
Mystical - Edge of the blade
NTM - Ma benzzz (some french rappers)
P.Diddy Feat Ginuwine Loon Mario Winans & Tammy Ruggeri - I Need A Girl Part II
The Chemical Brothers - Galvanize
The Streets - Fit but you know it
Shaggy - Hey sexy lady
X-Zibit - Alchoholic
Ying Yang twins - Wait (The Whisper Song)
And some other Romanian music, mostly hip-hop.
All this song make me feel like the most important man in the world and they also fill me up with energy and chicks love me![]()