"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What SNEAKERS are you rockin?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Love my Sketchers! 
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=7511&styleCode=50376
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19827&styleCode=60563
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19740
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=7511&styleCode=50376
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19827&styleCode=60563
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19740
Nice kicks, I have basketball shoes with that same logo... Ginobli!!!!ngaplz said:
As for me, I rock these: Converse Wade County http://www.hoopsvibe.com/basketball-shoes/converse/converse-wade-county-ar22632/image4503-0.html
randomusername
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Retro Bo-Jackson's!
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I've got like 10 or 12 pairs of shoes.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kev07
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Falcon said:
i like these,
as for me i got my vans on
http://www.britishempire-shop.de/ka...oduct/vans-slipon-navy-james-plaid-55158.html
these are the ones i wear the most, besides running shoes
http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeSection/redirect.cfm?sectionID=b2c/style/productDetails.cfm&itemID=64623936&&var=d&ckey=CA
edit: the white option, on the righthand side
http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeSection/redirect.cfm?sectionID=b2c/style/productDetails.cfm&itemID=64623936&&var=d&ckey=CA
edit: the white option, on the righthand side
djSlvt
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I got sketchers 50409, black. I'm getting me SPD bike shoes now, something black. I got ferrari gloss black bike, carbon black helmet, and everything is black, except my orange DOC muscle top.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If you want something for cycling, check out http://www.sidiusa.com/road.html, definitely stylish and very comfortable. They're Italian so they may feel narrow but they make a Mega size for wide "American" feet.djSlvt said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
This style of shoe is the staple of my shoe diet. Nike classics.
http://www.kitbag.com/product_images/large/312495-111.jpg
http://www.kitbag.com/product_images/large/312495-111.jpg
ConantheLibertarian
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http://www.amazon.com/Skechers-Mens...f=pd_lpo_k2_err_k2a_1_txt/104-8930259-6930369
This is the main pair I wear. I wear a lot of basketball sneakers too, because I have so many pairs from playing.
This is the main pair I wear. I wear a lot of basketball sneakers too, because I have so many pairs from playing.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.