"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What SNEAKERS are you rockin?
- Thread starter ngaplz
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Love my Sketchers! 
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=7511&styleCode=50376
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19827&styleCode=60563
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19740
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=7511&styleCode=50376
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19827&styleCode=60563
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19740
Nice kicks, I have basketball shoes with that same logo... Ginobli!!!!ngaplz said:
As for me, I rock these: Converse Wade County http://www.hoopsvibe.com/basketball-shoes/converse/converse-wade-county-ar22632/image4503-0.html
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Retro Bo-Jackson's!
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I've got like 10 or 12 pairs of shoes.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kev07
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Falcon said:
i like these,
as for me i got my vans on
http://www.britishempire-shop.de/ka...oduct/vans-slipon-navy-james-plaid-55158.html
these are the ones i wear the most, besides running shoes
http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeSection/redirect.cfm?sectionID=b2c/style/productDetails.cfm&itemID=64623936&&var=d&ckey=CA
edit: the white option, on the righthand side
http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeSection/redirect.cfm?sectionID=b2c/style/productDetails.cfm&itemID=64623936&&var=d&ckey=CA
edit: the white option, on the righthand side
djSlvt
Banned
I got sketchers 50409, black. I'm getting me SPD bike shoes now, something black. I got ferrari gloss black bike, carbon black helmet, and everything is black, except my orange DOC muscle top.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If you want something for cycling, check out http://www.sidiusa.com/road.html, definitely stylish and very comfortable. They're Italian so they may feel narrow but they make a Mega size for wide "American" feet.djSlvt said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
This style of shoe is the staple of my shoe diet. Nike classics.
http://www.kitbag.com/product_images/large/312495-111.jpg
http://www.kitbag.com/product_images/large/312495-111.jpg
ConantheLibertarian
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http://www.amazon.com/Skechers-Mens...f=pd_lpo_k2_err_k2a_1_txt/104-8930259-6930369
This is the main pair I wear. I wear a lot of basketball sneakers too, because I have so many pairs from playing.
This is the main pair I wear. I wear a lot of basketball sneakers too, because I have so many pairs from playing.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.