"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What SNEAKERS are you rockin?
- Thread starter ngaplz
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Love my Sketchers! 
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=7511&styleCode=50376
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19827&styleCode=60563
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19740
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=7511&styleCode=50376
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19827&styleCode=60563
http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.do?function=displayProductList&gender=M&catId=5&index=0&viewAll=true&sort=popular&prodId=19740
Nice kicks, I have basketball shoes with that same logo... Ginobli!!!!ngaplz said:
As for me, I rock these: Converse Wade County http://www.hoopsvibe.com/basketball-shoes/converse/converse-wade-county-ar22632/image4503-0.html
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Retro Bo-Jackson's!
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I've got like 10 or 12 pairs of shoes.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kev07
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Falcon said:
i like these,
as for me i got my vans on
http://www.britishempire-shop.de/ka...oduct/vans-slipon-navy-james-plaid-55158.html
these are the ones i wear the most, besides running shoes
http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeSection/redirect.cfm?sectionID=b2c/style/productDetails.cfm&itemID=64623936&&var=d&ckey=CA
edit: the white option, on the righthand side
http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeSection/redirect.cfm?sectionID=b2c/style/productDetails.cfm&itemID=64623936&&var=d&ckey=CA
edit: the white option, on the righthand side
djSlvt
Banned
I got sketchers 50409, black. I'm getting me SPD bike shoes now, something black. I got ferrari gloss black bike, carbon black helmet, and everything is black, except my orange DOC muscle top.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If you want something for cycling, check out http://www.sidiusa.com/road.html, definitely stylish and very comfortable. They're Italian so they may feel narrow but they make a Mega size for wide "American" feet.djSlvt said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
This style of shoe is the staple of my shoe diet. Nike classics.
http://www.kitbag.com/product_images/large/312495-111.jpg
http://www.kitbag.com/product_images/large/312495-111.jpg
ConantheLibertarian
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http://www.amazon.com/Skechers-Mens...f=pd_lpo_k2_err_k2a_1_txt/104-8930259-6930369
This is the main pair I wear. I wear a lot of basketball sneakers too, because I have so many pairs from playing.
This is the main pair I wear. I wear a lot of basketball sneakers too, because I have so many pairs from playing.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.