Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
so you really don't have anything to worry about man. As far as the whole "banging" her goes, if that's what you're looking for, wait a while down the road, and just get to know her now and see where that goes. You don't ever want to rush into anything.big ass error. u gave in way too easy. i havent read the other replies (mines the only one worth reading anywaysOriginally posted by bmal
this girl told me a few days ago, that she had feelings for me since the first time she saw me, and she had more and more each day, she couldnt control it, so she said it to me, and me, i don't really have feelings for her, i just want to bang her, and i told her i had some too, some of my friends, told me u did good, and others told me u did a big error right there, what should i've said ?. go on a date with her. and bang her ? lol
) but heres my advice:You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
seriously. a good rep with the guys is hell important.