Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
so you really don't have anything to worry about man. As far as the whole "banging" her goes, if that's what you're looking for, wait a while down the road, and just get to know her now and see where that goes. You don't ever want to rush into anything.big ass error. u gave in way too easy. i havent read the other replies (mines the only one worth reading anywaysOriginally posted by bmal
this girl told me a few days ago, that she had feelings for me since the first time she saw me, and she had more and more each day, she couldnt control it, so she said it to me, and me, i don't really have feelings for her, i just want to bang her, and i told her i had some too, some of my friends, told me u did good, and others told me u did a big error right there, what should i've said ?. go on a date with her. and bang her ? lol
) but heres my advice:Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
seriously. a good rep with the guys is hell important.