"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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this girl told me a few days ago, that she had feelings for me since the first time she saw me, and she had more and more each day, she couldnt control it, so she said it to me, and me, i don't really have feelings for her, i just want to bang her, and i told her i had some too, some of my friends, told me u did good, and others told me u did a big error right there, what should i've said ?. go on a date with her. and bang her ? lol :p
 

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Jerky Boi

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Okay, if the girl told you point blank that she had feelings for you, you really didn't do anything wrong admitting to her that you share those feelings also. Although, i probably wouldn't have admitted it right off the bat, I don't think you screwed anything up with her. Take her out on a date and have a good time. Do something fun that the both of you two would enjoy. I mean, you already know that she's interested in you, and according to her, it builds everyday :p so you really don't have anything to worry about man. As far as the whole "banging" her goes, if that's what you're looking for, wait a while down the road, and just get to know her now and see where that goes. You don't ever want to rush into anything.
 
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hell yea u messd up!. im only 16 but i know what 2 say n what not 2 say...n amitin 2 her that ur intrested like that is a wrong move! shes gonna start losin interest ull see cus u made urself predictable N borin!...no challeng here!
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by bmal
this girl told me a few days ago, that she had feelings for me since the first time she saw me, and she had more and more each day, she couldnt control it, so she said it to me, and me, i don't really have feelings for her, i just want to bang her, and i told her i had some too, some of my friends, told me u did good, and others told me u did a big error right there, what should i've said ?. go on a date with her. and bang her ? lol :p
big ass error. u gave in way too easy. i havent read the other replies (mines the only one worth reading anyways :D ) but heres my advice:

if u ever hear a girl say that, say "of course" or "i get that alot" with a ****y smile. works for me everytime.
 

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if a girl tells that to ya right off the bat, she's obviously into ya. maybe nerovus on the side too. on advice, though, i wouldn't have admitted something like that back...not a good idea. from experience, girls like that think you're honest too and you don't want her to think certain things.
still, if she's ok to you, just go with the flow... like Jerky said. have a good time and lighten up
 

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blinkwatt

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dont ask friends if you did good or bad,where you made mistakes and such.leave all questions for this site,thats what weare here for(to develop each and everyone of us to enhance our dating lives with women).
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by blinkwatt
dont ask friends if you did good or bad,where you made mistakes and such.leave all questions for this site,thats what weare here for(to develop each and everyone of us to enhance our dating lives with women).
seriously. a good rep with the guys is hell important.
 

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Umm yeah don't ask your pals about chicks. don't say I love you unless you mean it. Trust me. I said I love you too many times and now I regret it. Not because I los the girl but because she thought we were meant to be and I had to reject which feels bad. lol
 
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