"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what should i say next .. qucick

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i told this girl not to text cause i dont have text msg package. ok i text her last night . and she said i thought you said you didnt want to be texing i said only certain people wiht a wink then she says should i feel special

lol i know its aight but how to i come back showing her ****y and funny or what ever to say

i need some help what to say back thanks guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How can you say nah if you don't get it.. She think you treat her special, take it back, you made a mistake, can be fixed. Instead, call her sometime.
 
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how did i mak the mistake now . now i confused her a lil bit .... thats good thing right
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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“why are you asking me how you should feel? Should I suspect a high interest level?”
 
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intel123 said:
yea now she said um ok ..
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yea cause you wierded her out

you told her you don't text and it's implied it's cause you can't afford it. then you text her anyway. the context is that you're did it because you're jocking her, not because you're slick. you lowered your value

then you try to do a push-pull when she didn't buy the "you're special" line in the first place

miscalibration = awkwardness
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ready123 said:
yea cause you wierded her out

because you're jocking her, not because you're slick. you lowered your value

then you try to do a push-pull when she didn't buy the "you're special" line in the first place

miscalibration = awkwardness
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whats jocking her

what should i shoulda said if somthing lke that comes up again
 
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whats jocking her

what should i shoulda said if somthing lke that comes up again
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jocking is chasing her

your problem isn't what you say - it's not being able to read the girl well enough to calibrate. that'll come with experience. just keep practicing and don't take it too seriously
 
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