"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what should i say next .. qucick

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i told this girl not to text cause i dont have text msg package. ok i text her last night . and she said i thought you said you didnt want to be texing i said only certain people wiht a wink then she says should i feel special

lol i know its aight but how to i come back showing her ****y and funny or what ever to say

i need some help what to say back thanks guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How can you say nah if you don't get it.. She think you treat her special, take it back, you made a mistake, can be fixed. Instead, call her sometime.
 
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how did i mak the mistake now . now i confused her a lil bit .... thats good thing right
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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“why are you asking me how you should feel? Should I suspect a high interest level?”
 
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intel123 said:
yea now she said um ok ..
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yea cause you wierded her out

you told her you don't text and it's implied it's cause you can't afford it. then you text her anyway. the context is that you're did it because you're jocking her, not because you're slick. you lowered your value

then you try to do a push-pull when she didn't buy the "you're special" line in the first place

miscalibration = awkwardness
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yea cause you wierded her out

because you're jocking her, not because you're slick. you lowered your value

then you try to do a push-pull when she didn't buy the "you're special" line in the first place

miscalibration = awkwardness
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whats jocking her

what should i shoulda said if somthing lke that comes up again
 
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intel123 said:
whats jocking her

what should i shoulda said if somthing lke that comes up again
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jocking is chasing her

your problem isn't what you say - it's not being able to read the girl well enough to calibrate. that'll come with experience. just keep practicing and don't take it too seriously
 
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