"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what should i say next .. qucick

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i told this girl not to text cause i dont have text msg package. ok i text her last night . and she said i thought you said you didnt want to be texing i said only certain people wiht a wink then she says should i feel special

lol i know its aight but how to i come back showing her ****y and funny or what ever to say

i need some help what to say back thanks guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How can you say nah if you don't get it.. She think you treat her special, take it back, you made a mistake, can be fixed. Instead, call her sometime.
 
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how did i mak the mistake now . now i confused her a lil bit .... thats good thing right
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“why are you asking me how you should feel? Should I suspect a high interest level?”
 
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intel123 said:
yea now she said um ok ..
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yea cause you wierded her out

you told her you don't text and it's implied it's cause you can't afford it. then you text her anyway. the context is that you're did it because you're jocking her, not because you're slick. you lowered your value

then you try to do a push-pull when she didn't buy the "you're special" line in the first place

miscalibration = awkwardness
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yea cause you wierded her out

because you're jocking her, not because you're slick. you lowered your value

then you try to do a push-pull when she didn't buy the "you're special" line in the first place

miscalibration = awkwardness
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whats jocking her

what should i shoulda said if somthing lke that comes up again
 
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whats jocking her

what should i shoulda said if somthing lke that comes up again
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jocking is chasing her

your problem isn't what you say - it's not being able to read the girl well enough to calibrate. that'll come with experience. just keep practicing and don't take it too seriously
 
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