What should I say here

[TheBaconator]

Long story short I hooked up with some girl at club last weekend, called sunday asked if she wanted to do something wed night (tonight) and when she agreed told her i'd call her last night to discuss wat to do.

Now I call last night about 915 and she answers and talks for a min but asks to call me back because she's meeting her mom. So I say no prob and she never calls me back and hasn't today. Now I know many of you will say she has low IL so just next it, but I think it's worth at least calling one more time. I think there is decent IL since I left her a message Sunday and she returned my call and remembered me from the club and sounded happy on fone.

So what should I say today? Do I even bring up her not callin me bak and just act like we still have plans to chill tonite? Should I text her sayin wasup?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Huge mistake not already telling her what the plans are the first time you called. You had a chance to set the date up and failed.

Then you left the ball in her court to call back, never do that. They never call.

You can call again why not, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work out.

 

[TheBaconator]

Huge mistake not already telling her what the plans are the first time you called. You had a chance to set the date up then and failed.

Then you left the ball in her court to call back, never do that. They never call.

No I told her I would call her back last night to decide wha to do which I did. The problem is she asked to call me back after that and didn't. You're right I should have set it up when first talking, but reflecting on that will get me nowhere, i've learned for next time. Now what should I say when I call her and try to get her out tonite?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

No I told her I would call her back last night to decide wha to do which I did. The problem is she asked to call me back after that and didn't. You're right I should have set it up when first talking, but reflecting on that will get me nowhere, i've learned for next time. Now what should I say when I call her and try to get her out tonite?

I wouldn't even mention it. Just do what you should have done the first time and see if she agrees to meet again.

 

[Smack]

Long story short I hooked up with some girl at club last weekend, called sunday asked if she wanted to do something wed night (tonight) and when she agreed told her i'd call her last night to discuss wat to do.

Now I call last night about 915 and she answers and talks for a min but asks to call me back because she's meeting her mom. So I say no prob and she never calls me back and hasn't today. Now I know many of you will say she has low IL so just next it, but I think it's worth at least calling one more time. I think there is decent IL since I left her a message Sunday and she returned my call and remembered me from the club and sounded happy on fone.

So what should I say today? Do I even bring up her not callin me bak and just act like we still have plans to chill tonite? Should I text her sayin wasup?

You clearly haven't read the Don Juan Bible. Read it.

Sosuave is not here to hold your hand in the journey that will be your love life. When you're unsure, you cannot run to Sosuave and get the perfect line that will make her spread her legs for you. If you actually understand the materials here, then you'll know what to do.

 

[Cashew]

I wouldn't call her back yet. Go out and do something else tonight, wait a day or two then if she hasn't called you can call her if you still want to.