"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What should I do?

PhillyBobThorton

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Ok, there's this girl and we've been going out for almost two months now. About 2 weeks into our relationship, she had some problems and couldn't come back to school and won't be back until next year. She lives about a 20 minute drive away and I don't have my license yet, and she doesn't have hers either, so we haven't done anything but go out on a few dates. She just started playing softball and the field isn't far away, which means I'll get to see her about once a week.

Well her first game was yeseterday and my brother's girlfriend plays on the same team as my girlfriend. My girlfriend had a doctor's appointment and then she was going straight to her game. But it was raining that morning and I had asked my brother's girlfriend if the game was cancelled or not. She told me it was and I didn't get to see my girlfriend, nor talk to her that day. Well today, I was talking to her and she acted like something was wrong. She wasn't saying much and just wasn't herself. So my question is what approach should I take with this? I don't want to break it off with her and I don't want her to break it off with me either. This is about the only place I figured I could find some help..What do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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maybe it has something to do with the dr appointment or maybe its whatever is keeping her from coming back to school or perhaps she is feeling under the weather.
just be yourself and play it cool. if you think something is wrong, ask her "is everything ok?"

i wouldnt throw the relationship away just yet.
 

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if she plays softball there is a high probablility that she is a member of the future lesbians' club. maybe that is why she is acting strange.

elmo's advice : wait until you can drive before you try getting a girl.
 
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