"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What should I do?

PhillyBobThorton

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Ok, there's this girl and we've been going out for almost two months now. About 2 weeks into our relationship, she had some problems and couldn't come back to school and won't be back until next year. She lives about a 20 minute drive away and I don't have my license yet, and she doesn't have hers either, so we haven't done anything but go out on a few dates. She just started playing softball and the field isn't far away, which means I'll get to see her about once a week.

Well her first game was yeseterday and my brother's girlfriend plays on the same team as my girlfriend. My girlfriend had a doctor's appointment and then she was going straight to her game. But it was raining that morning and I had asked my brother's girlfriend if the game was cancelled or not. She told me it was and I didn't get to see my girlfriend, nor talk to her that day. Well today, I was talking to her and she acted like something was wrong. She wasn't saying much and just wasn't herself. So my question is what approach should I take with this? I don't want to break it off with her and I don't want her to break it off with me either. This is about the only place I figured I could find some help..What do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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maybe it has something to do with the dr appointment or maybe its whatever is keeping her from coming back to school or perhaps she is feeling under the weather.
just be yourself and play it cool. if you think something is wrong, ask her "is everything ok?"

i wouldnt throw the relationship away just yet.
 

elmo

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if she plays softball there is a high probablility that she is a member of the future lesbians' club. maybe that is why she is acting strange.

elmo's advice : wait until you can drive before you try getting a girl.
 
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