"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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frisco

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K last friday i was talking to this girl and invited her to this little party i was gonna go to the next tuesday and she asked for my number and i didnt get hers anyways she didnt ever call and were on break so i havent seen her sence but when we do go back to school should i say anthing or just play it off like i didnt even think about it or be like u missed a hell of a party
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Master Disaster

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act like it never crossed your mind. She is probably testing to see how desperate you are. Or she could of honestly forgot and not that intrested in you. If its case #2 try to play it off and barely talk to her. So if she wants to talk to you she must call you. Don't ask for her #. Since she has your # she'll call you if she wants you. If she doesn't move on.
 

biker_gixxer

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don't 'play it off' like you didn't think about it, girls will sense this type of 'acting' a mile away.
You have to put yourself in the mind set that it doesn't matter if she called or not, it's her loss.

Girls will flake on your for no reason at all, so get used to this type of thing happening.

If you say 'you missed one hell of a party', she will see that you are still thinking about that interaction with her (the invitation and number swap). By the time you guys get back in school, it will be old news for her because she would have probably gotten hit on by 1000 guys by then. See what I'm saying?

Stop thinking about this and move on to next prospect.
 

Anomalous

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Call her the day after the party and say, "sorry, i missed your call" even though she never called (this always works) "but im going to be in and out" (in and out of what :woo: ) just wanted to let you know how much FUN i had at the party, try and cacth me if you can"
 

S-lemond

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whyshy u know so much my friend....but i never see it put into play(no kidding we are friends)<= answering ?'s before they are posted
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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