"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What should i do

frisco

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K last friday i was talking to this girl and invited her to this little party i was gonna go to the next tuesday and she asked for my number and i didnt get hers anyways she didnt ever call and were on break so i havent seen her sence but when we do go back to school should i say anthing or just play it off like i didnt even think about it or be like u missed a hell of a party
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Master Disaster

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act like it never crossed your mind. She is probably testing to see how desperate you are. Or she could of honestly forgot and not that intrested in you. If its case #2 try to play it off and barely talk to her. So if she wants to talk to you she must call you. Don't ask for her #. Since she has your # she'll call you if she wants you. If she doesn't move on.
 

biker_gixxer

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don't 'play it off' like you didn't think about it, girls will sense this type of 'acting' a mile away.
You have to put yourself in the mind set that it doesn't matter if she called or not, it's her loss.

Girls will flake on your for no reason at all, so get used to this type of thing happening.

If you say 'you missed one hell of a party', she will see that you are still thinking about that interaction with her (the invitation and number swap). By the time you guys get back in school, it will be old news for her because she would have probably gotten hit on by 1000 guys by then. See what I'm saying?

Stop thinking about this and move on to next prospect.
 

Anomalous

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Call her the day after the party and say, "sorry, i missed your call" even though she never called (this always works) "but im going to be in and out" (in and out of what :woo: ) just wanted to let you know how much FUN i had at the party, try and cacth me if you can"
 

S-lemond

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whyshy u know so much my friend....but i never see it put into play(no kidding we are friends)<= answering ?'s before they are posted
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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