"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What should i do

frisco

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K last friday i was talking to this girl and invited her to this little party i was gonna go to the next tuesday and she asked for my number and i didnt get hers anyways she didnt ever call and were on break so i havent seen her sence but when we do go back to school should i say anthing or just play it off like i didnt even think about it or be like u missed a hell of a party
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Master Disaster

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act like it never crossed your mind. She is probably testing to see how desperate you are. Or she could of honestly forgot and not that intrested in you. If its case #2 try to play it off and barely talk to her. So if she wants to talk to you she must call you. Don't ask for her #. Since she has your # she'll call you if she wants you. If she doesn't move on.
 

biker_gixxer

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don't 'play it off' like you didn't think about it, girls will sense this type of 'acting' a mile away.
You have to put yourself in the mind set that it doesn't matter if she called or not, it's her loss.

Girls will flake on your for no reason at all, so get used to this type of thing happening.

If you say 'you missed one hell of a party', she will see that you are still thinking about that interaction with her (the invitation and number swap). By the time you guys get back in school, it will be old news for her because she would have probably gotten hit on by 1000 guys by then. See what I'm saying?

Stop thinking about this and move on to next prospect.
 

Anomalous

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Call her the day after the party and say, "sorry, i missed your call" even though she never called (this always works) "but im going to be in and out" (in and out of what :woo: ) just wanted to let you know how much FUN i had at the party, try and cacth me if you can"
 

S-lemond

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whyshy u know so much my friend....but i never see it put into play(no kidding we are friends)<= answering ?'s before they are posted
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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