"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What should I do?

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I'm new here, but got a link from another board because I need help in getting someone to like me.
My problem is that I'm kinda shy, I don't know what to talk about when I'm with a woman I like, I have a sence of not wanting to get too close because I've been betrayed once, and I'm too nice. Last night after a band compitition I got a girl I used to like (until yesterday) her stuff and even found her a pen so she could get a phone number from another guy. What can I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Read the DJ Bible. Always do that before posting anything.
 
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Originally posted by Tboneman
Last night after a band compitition I got a girl I used to like (until yesterday) her stuff and even found her a pen so she could get a phone number from another guy. What can I do?
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Why the hell would you do that?? Thats what you can do...never do that again...yep...thats a muy bueno start.
 
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Re: Re: What should I do?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why the hell would you do that?? Thats what you can do...never do that again...yep...thats a muy bueno start.
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That was the definition of being an AFC.
 
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Re: Re: Re: What should I do?

Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
That was the definition of being an AFC.
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Maybe...in my book its being a bish.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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just throw a book at the guy.

Grab the pen and write your phone number down on it.

wink at her and give her the piece of paper.

throw another book at the guy.

Throw VARIOUS.... no.... NUMEROUS... books

no seriously though it's pretty over with her...

Just start pissing on the floor and pretend you can swim in it.

Nah all that will get you assault charges, and will send you to the mental hopsital.... (Been there done that)

No dont' really take advice from me though... Just read the DJ bible.
 
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It was too late to do anything with her anyway, she didn't have any intrest in me.
 
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you have to start learing from somewhere i guess. take the adivce here, be humble and read the almighty bible Pooks Anti Dump machine would work for you, a guy that i gather is looking for a long term thing? yeah its in the bible, near the bottom.
 
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Ok, I DON'T want to go out with her anymore. I just want to really wanna know how to get SOME girl, ANY girl to like me. Sorry to seem like I'm yelling.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Tboneman
I just want to really wanna know how to get SOME girl, ANY girl to like me.
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now that my friends... was...
desperation defined. what is your problem man? you need an ego booster or something? dont sit on your ass wating for someone to like you. PFFFFFFFT. jesus.
 
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