So basically this girl that I like basically spills her feelings for me over text at like 2 am two nights ago. Tells me she likes me wants to date and needs to know if I like her. I figured I'd be honest and and said yeah I'd like to talk to her. Anyway we go back and forth for a bit and then I tell her that I'd meetc up with her the following night to which she agrees. Anyway i hit her up ask her to get food and so she doesn't respond 2 hours after the fact saying she's really sorry she fell asleep and just woke up. To this I respond okay. She proceeds to ask me what I'm doing and I just tell her I'm chillen at home. She texts back ohhh to which I never responded to. Frankly I didn't really feel like responding given her response and had plans with my friends the same night. Was this a bad move? And how should I follow up from this? I'd still like to her have this talk with her
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
what should I do?
- Thread starter datkid55
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
