So basically this girl that I like basically spills her feelings for me over text at like 2 am two nights ago. Tells me she likes me wants to date and needs to know if I like her. I figured I'd be honest and and said yeah I'd like to talk to her. Anyway we go back and forth for a bit and then I tell her that I'd meetc up with her the following night to which she agrees. Anyway i hit her up ask her to get food and so she doesn't respond 2 hours after the fact saying she's really sorry she fell asleep and just woke up. To this I respond okay. She proceeds to ask me what I'm doing and I just tell her I'm chillen at home. She texts back ohhh to which I never responded to. Frankly I didn't really feel like responding given her response and had plans with my friends the same night. Was this a bad move? And how should I follow up from this? I'd still like to her have this talk with her
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what should I do?
- Thread starter datkid55
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
