So basically this girl that I like basically spills her feelings for me over text at like 2 am two nights ago. Tells me she likes me wants to date and needs to know if I like her. I figured I'd be honest and and said yeah I'd like to talk to her. Anyway we go back and forth for a bit and then I tell her that I'd meetc up with her the following night to which she agrees. Anyway i hit her up ask her to get food and so she doesn't respond 2 hours after the fact saying she's really sorry she fell asleep and just woke up. To this I respond okay. She proceeds to ask me what I'm doing and I just tell her I'm chillen at home. She texts back ohhh to which I never responded to. Frankly I didn't really feel like responding given her response and had plans with my friends the same night. Was this a bad move? And how should I follow up from this? I'd still like to her have this talk with her
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what should I do?
- Thread starter datkid55
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
