So i've been talking to this girl for a while, and we met up about a month ago. we hooked up a couple times at her place and she said she liked me. she seemed like a trick though so I just told her I liked her too and didn't really mean it. so anyway she got a boyfriend so I stopped talking to her for a while...now she's blowing up my phone asking me to hang out. should I just drop her or what? i dont know if she's trying to do a fwb thing here
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What should I do
- Thread starter kazz
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No, she's most likely an attention Wh0re. Or just wants to use you as an emotional tampon to kill time with until her and her boyfriend meet up again.
Unless she shows sexual interest in you, back off and check out other girls, if she becomes single try her out again if you want.
Unless she shows sexual interest in you, back off and check out other girls, if she becomes single try her out again if you want.
nah its pretty weird because she's shown alot of sexual interest and we've already gone pretty far. one of my close female friends introduced me to her so its not like I can just ignore her and expect no repercussions. I guess i'll just spin some other plates for now and see what I come up with. thanks
Update
So yesterday we hung out with some friends, apparently I came up in the conversation before I got there. It was pretty chill but she called me up after and asked if I still had feelings for her...I didn't directly answer this but I do think I'm starting to catch feelings for her. She brought up something from before (we made a bet that i had to take her somewhere and I lost) but I said we couldn't go cause of her new guy...she is the type to cheat. So I pretty much told her we needed some time to figure things out alone and we should go into NC. Anyways she just called me twice, I'm about to ignore her completely...
So yesterday we hung out with some friends, apparently I came up in the conversation before I got there. It was pretty chill but she called me up after and asked if I still had feelings for her...I didn't directly answer this but I do think I'm starting to catch feelings for her. She brought up something from before (we made a bet that i had to take her somewhere and I lost) but I said we couldn't go cause of her new guy...she is the type to cheat. So I pretty much told her we needed some time to figure things out alone and we should go into NC. Anyways she just called me twice, I'm about to ignore her completely...