So i've been talking to this girl for a while, and we met up about a month ago. we hooked up a couple times at her place and she said she liked me. she seemed like a trick though so I just told her I liked her too and didn't really mean it. so anyway she got a boyfriend so I stopped talking to her for a while...now she's blowing up my phone asking me to hang out. should I just drop her or what? i dont know if she's trying to do a fwb thing here
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What should I do
- Thread starter kazz
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No, she's most likely an attention Wh0re. Or just wants to use you as an emotional tampon to kill time with until her and her boyfriend meet up again.
Unless she shows sexual interest in you, back off and check out other girls, if she becomes single try her out again if you want.
Unless she shows sexual interest in you, back off and check out other girls, if she becomes single try her out again if you want.
nah its pretty weird because she's shown alot of sexual interest and we've already gone pretty far. one of my close female friends introduced me to her so its not like I can just ignore her and expect no repercussions. I guess i'll just spin some other plates for now and see what I come up with. thanks
Update
So yesterday we hung out with some friends, apparently I came up in the conversation before I got there. It was pretty chill but she called me up after and asked if I still had feelings for her...I didn't directly answer this but I do think I'm starting to catch feelings for her. She brought up something from before (we made a bet that i had to take her somewhere and I lost) but I said we couldn't go cause of her new guy...she is the type to cheat. So I pretty much told her we needed some time to figure things out alone and we should go into NC. Anyways she just called me twice, I'm about to ignore her completely...
So yesterday we hung out with some friends, apparently I came up in the conversation before I got there. It was pretty chill but she called me up after and asked if I still had feelings for her...I didn't directly answer this but I do think I'm starting to catch feelings for her. She brought up something from before (we made a bet that i had to take her somewhere and I lost) but I said we couldn't go cause of her new guy...she is the type to cheat. So I pretty much told her we needed some time to figure things out alone and we should go into NC. Anyways she just called me twice, I'm about to ignore her completely...