So i've been talking to this girl for a while, and we met up about a month ago. we hooked up a couple times at her place and she said she liked me. she seemed like a trick though so I just told her I liked her too and didn't really mean it. so anyway she got a boyfriend so I stopped talking to her for a while...now she's blowing up my phone asking me to hang out. should I just drop her or what? i dont know if she's trying to do a fwb thing here
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What should I do
- Thread starter kazz
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No, she's most likely an attention Wh0re. Or just wants to use you as an emotional tampon to kill time with until her and her boyfriend meet up again.
Unless she shows sexual interest in you, back off and check out other girls, if she becomes single try her out again if you want.
Unless she shows sexual interest in you, back off and check out other girls, if she becomes single try her out again if you want.
nah its pretty weird because she's shown alot of sexual interest and we've already gone pretty far. one of my close female friends introduced me to her so its not like I can just ignore her and expect no repercussions. I guess i'll just spin some other plates for now and see what I come up with. thanks
Update
So yesterday we hung out with some friends, apparently I came up in the conversation before I got there. It was pretty chill but she called me up after and asked if I still had feelings for her...I didn't directly answer this but I do think I'm starting to catch feelings for her. She brought up something from before (we made a bet that i had to take her somewhere and I lost) but I said we couldn't go cause of her new guy...she is the type to cheat. So I pretty much told her we needed some time to figure things out alone and we should go into NC. Anyways she just called me twice, I'm about to ignore her completely...
So yesterday we hung out with some friends, apparently I came up in the conversation before I got there. It was pretty chill but she called me up after and asked if I still had feelings for her...I didn't directly answer this but I do think I'm starting to catch feelings for her. She brought up something from before (we made a bet that i had to take her somewhere and I lost) but I said we couldn't go cause of her new guy...she is the type to cheat. So I pretty much told her we needed some time to figure things out alone and we should go into NC. Anyways she just called me twice, I'm about to ignore her completely...