“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what should I do?

seth03

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So theres this girl i've been trying to get on for the past few weeks. I have only met up with her at our work's happy hours, which are on thursdays, but I never see her at all throughout the week. First time I met her, got her number, whatever. I call her to hang out on the weekend, she was busy when I called, so I forgot about it. Today was the 3rd time I saw her at our happy hour. She acted all standoffish the whole time, but whenever I laid kino on her, ANY type of kino on her, she welcomed it. I can keep my hand on the small of her back for like 5 seconds, and she has no problem.

However, she acts like she is a lot cooler than she is (or it might be that she is so shy that she doesn't know how to act). She mentions that she will have a party at her place once her roomates are done with it, and I ask if i can come, and she says "no". There are other parts of our convos where she acts standoffish and fairly rude. YET, she accepts my kino all the time. AND, when I saw a guy trying to hit on her and touch her, she got all squirmy with him.

ALSO...she never calls me, but whenever I call, she answers right away, or calls me back immediately if she doesn't have her phone on her. She has never initiated ONE call. I have no problem with this, but that, combined with the fact that she acts rude to a lot of what I say, is making me confused.

Do her actions (kino acceptance and fact that she quickly and happily answers all my calls) speak louder than her words, or is this b!tch just a phuckin retard? help!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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maranathaman

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I'll admit that I'm a little rusty.
But my opinion is this...
ask her out on a date.
If she says "no", or makes excuses,
then you have your answer.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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I need more info. How old is she, how old are you? HB7? HB8? Where do you work?

From the initial read, I want to say she's an attention hoare, but I need more meat on the grill to give you a good BBQ.
 
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