"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What should I do?

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I REAAAALLY like some girl in one of my classes, and I know she likes me back (for sure [p.s. this is the same one I posted a thread about asking out]) but she also likes a few other guys (I think so, anyway)... I don't know who she likes the most though, and if she liked one of these others more than me she would probably turn me down?

What do you guys think I could do? Just ask her out? Or is there any way I could check...

Thanks for helping me in advance :):)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Arizona iced tea

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well it seems that you are afraid of rejection... so either "seize the day or die regretting the girl you lost." lol. i assume you are in high school, there are plenty of other girls, trust me. but in my experiences most girls dont say no... so you have a good chance.
 
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I agree with the above. You just gotta ask her out and if you get rejected then forget her. There are plenty more girls around and as I've said before rejection is better than regret any day.
 
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