"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What should I do?

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I REAAAALLY like some girl in one of my classes, and I know she likes me back (for sure [p.s. this is the same one I posted a thread about asking out]) but she also likes a few other guys (I think so, anyway)... I don't know who she likes the most though, and if she liked one of these others more than me she would probably turn me down?

What do you guys think I could do? Just ask her out? Or is there any way I could check...

Thanks for helping me in advance :):)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Arizona iced tea

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well it seems that you are afraid of rejection... so either "seize the day or die regretting the girl you lost." lol. i assume you are in high school, there are plenty of other girls, trust me. but in my experiences most girls dont say no... so you have a good chance.
 
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I agree with the above. You just gotta ask her out and if you get rejected then forget her. There are plenty more girls around and as I've said before rejection is better than regret any day.
 
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