"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What should I do?

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Jack-Torrance

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I REAAAALLY like some girl in one of my classes, and I know she likes me back (for sure [p.s. this is the same one I posted a thread about asking out]) but she also likes a few other guys (I think so, anyway)... I don't know who she likes the most though, and if she liked one of these others more than me she would probably turn me down?

What do you guys think I could do? Just ask her out? Or is there any way I could check...

Thanks for helping me in advance :):)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Arizona iced tea

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well it seems that you are afraid of rejection... so either "seize the day or die regretting the girl you lost." lol. i assume you are in high school, there are plenty of other girls, trust me. but in my experiences most girls dont say no... so you have a good chance.
 
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I agree with the above. You just gotta ask her out and if you get rejected then forget her. There are plenty more girls around and as I've said before rejection is better than regret any day.
 
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