"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What should I do?

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So me and my LTR gf went out yesterday with a few of her friends, we had a lot of fun etc. I'm making some jokes with the guys nothing special. Teasing her once and a while, but nothing really bad cause she's teasing me back...
Anyway on the way back on the train, where we had a food fight etc :D... One of the guys (friend A) spits water on the other one (friend b) :p... And she gets back friend A for friend B cause he didn't do it herself :D.
Now I'm saying to him: you just not gonna let her get away with that :D...

She gets kinda pissed at me cause I'm taking his side lol... (women right?) and in her anger she says: I'll cheat on you...
(friend A gets it right away that that hit the wrong spot in me and tells me she doesn't mean it and wouldn't do that, but hes just being her friend right...)

I'm thinking like: WTF is that for a reaction... I said a bit later that I really didn't like it that she said that... later when we got off the train she's saying: sorry, i didn't mean that... I'm really sorry blablabla... But its stuck in my head. I really don't know what to do about this, even if she was kidding...(how can I know that she won't cheat one me? I can't... thats just thrust, but how can I thrust her if she says she will cheat on me... LoL) I don't wanna be a *ss at her by nagging about it :down: , but thats not really things you say to your boyfriend right?

Any suggestions about What I should do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Let it blow right off your shoulder, shes not gonna cheat like she said "it was a joke" and thats all it was. It seems like you haev some trust issues man but just let it blow off.

But if you wanna show her it affected you without negging, be a bit distant for a while, not wanting to get intimate, say you have other things to do, that sort of stuff, until she brings it up herself, then you can have a conversation about it. But in my opinion you shouldn't do anything soon as she sees it affected you her views of you might change, jealousy (trust issues) is a inner flaw of having no self confidence. Some girls dont like that in a guy, they want a guy with tons of confidence and seemingly having no flaws, so it could effect your relationship letting her know its affecting you this much.
 
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ya youre probebly right... It just gotten to my head.

About the thrust issues :D LoL, might be true cause sometimes i really have to keep it in myself to not show I'm jealous... So far she hasen't noticed it... got any hints on what i should do about that part too then? :whistle:

cheers mate(s)
(all response is welcome)
 
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on what exactly hiding your jealousy from her or trying to deal with your jealousy to get over it within yourself?

If its the hiding your jealousy from her heres an article i found on the site which i don't fully indorse myself because it doesn't actually say how to truly get over your own jealousy. Here it is:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/jealous.htm
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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