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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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So me and my LTR gf went out yesterday with a few of her friends, we had a lot of fun etc. I'm making some jokes with the guys nothing special. Teasing her once and a while, but nothing really bad cause she's teasing me back...
Anyway on the way back on the train, where we had a food fight etc :D... One of the guys (friend A) spits water on the other one (friend b) :p... And she gets back friend A for friend B cause he didn't do it herself :D.
Now I'm saying to him: you just not gonna let her get away with that :D...

She gets kinda pissed at me cause I'm taking his side lol... (women right?) and in her anger she says: I'll cheat on you...
(friend A gets it right away that that hit the wrong spot in me and tells me she doesn't mean it and wouldn't do that, but hes just being her friend right...)

I'm thinking like: WTF is that for a reaction... I said a bit later that I really didn't like it that she said that... later when we got off the train she's saying: sorry, i didn't mean that... I'm really sorry blablabla... But its stuck in my head. I really don't know what to do about this, even if she was kidding...(how can I know that she won't cheat one me? I can't... thats just thrust, but how can I thrust her if she says she will cheat on me... LoL) I don't wanna be a *ss at her by nagging about it :down: , but thats not really things you say to your boyfriend right?

Any suggestions about What I should do?
 

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Let it blow right off your shoulder, shes not gonna cheat like she said "it was a joke" and thats all it was. It seems like you haev some trust issues man but just let it blow off.

But if you wanna show her it affected you without negging, be a bit distant for a while, not wanting to get intimate, say you have other things to do, that sort of stuff, until she brings it up herself, then you can have a conversation about it. But in my opinion you shouldn't do anything soon as she sees it affected you her views of you might change, jealousy (trust issues) is a inner flaw of having no self confidence. Some girls dont like that in a guy, they want a guy with tons of confidence and seemingly having no flaws, so it could effect your relationship letting her know its affecting you this much.
 
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ya youre probebly right... It just gotten to my head.

About the thrust issues :D LoL, might be true cause sometimes i really have to keep it in myself to not show I'm jealous... So far she hasen't noticed it... got any hints on what i should do about that part too then? :whistle:

cheers mate(s)
(all response is welcome)
 
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on what exactly hiding your jealousy from her or trying to deal with your jealousy to get over it within yourself?

If its the hiding your jealousy from her heres an article i found on the site which i don't fully indorse myself because it doesn't actually say how to truly get over your own jealousy. Here it is:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/jealous.htm
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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