"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What should I do?

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So me and my LTR gf went out yesterday with a few of her friends, we had a lot of fun etc. I'm making some jokes with the guys nothing special. Teasing her once and a while, but nothing really bad cause she's teasing me back...
Anyway on the way back on the train, where we had a food fight etc :D... One of the guys (friend A) spits water on the other one (friend b) :p... And she gets back friend A for friend B cause he didn't do it herself :D.
Now I'm saying to him: you just not gonna let her get away with that :D...

She gets kinda pissed at me cause I'm taking his side lol... (women right?) and in her anger she says: I'll cheat on you...
(friend A gets it right away that that hit the wrong spot in me and tells me she doesn't mean it and wouldn't do that, but hes just being her friend right...)

I'm thinking like: WTF is that for a reaction... I said a bit later that I really didn't like it that she said that... later when we got off the train she's saying: sorry, i didn't mean that... I'm really sorry blablabla... But its stuck in my head. I really don't know what to do about this, even if she was kidding...(how can I know that she won't cheat one me? I can't... thats just thrust, but how can I thrust her if she says she will cheat on me... LoL) I don't wanna be a *ss at her by nagging about it :down: , but thats not really things you say to your boyfriend right?

Any suggestions about What I should do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let it blow right off your shoulder, shes not gonna cheat like she said "it was a joke" and thats all it was. It seems like you haev some trust issues man but just let it blow off.

But if you wanna show her it affected you without negging, be a bit distant for a while, not wanting to get intimate, say you have other things to do, that sort of stuff, until she brings it up herself, then you can have a conversation about it. But in my opinion you shouldn't do anything soon as she sees it affected you her views of you might change, jealousy (trust issues) is a inner flaw of having no self confidence. Some girls dont like that in a guy, they want a guy with tons of confidence and seemingly having no flaws, so it could effect your relationship letting her know its affecting you this much.
 
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ya youre probebly right... It just gotten to my head.

About the thrust issues :D LoL, might be true cause sometimes i really have to keep it in myself to not show I'm jealous... So far she hasen't noticed it... got any hints on what i should do about that part too then? :whistle:

cheers mate(s)
(all response is welcome)
 
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on what exactly hiding your jealousy from her or trying to deal with your jealousy to get over it within yourself?

If its the hiding your jealousy from her heres an article i found on the site which i don't fully indorse myself because it doesn't actually say how to truly get over your own jealousy. Here it is:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/jealous.htm
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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