"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What should I do with my Facebook if it demonstrates low social value?

Yewki

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Just don't add them to facebook. I almost never do. I use facebook purely for people and family I can't go directly hang out with.
This, then change all your info and pics to private so only friends see your stuff. Then stop using FB lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigneil

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I only have 132 friends, so when a photo recently got 23 likes, that's nearly 20% of my friends.
 

Xombie0991

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I have no friends irl, so not sure how I could use social proof method
 

skinnyguy

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Lol. I'm planning to go no fap and no social media this summer. I want to see if it has an effect on my libido and my ability to game. I think I told you about my hookup with that HB 8 and I couldn't get it up. I've been working out at the gym more instead of paying attention to FB and I feel a lot better. Social media is a huge time killer. You should use that time to elevate your SMV
 

dutchmaster

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Delete it.. Mine also showed low value, but that's not the only reason to delete it. Facebook is like poison to the brain
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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