This, then change all your info and pics to private so only friends see your stuff. Then stop using FB lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What should I do with my Facebook if it demonstrates low social value?
- Thread starter snowandotherjoys
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Xombie0991
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I have no friends irl, so not sure how I could use social proof method
Lol. I'm planning to go no fap and no social media this summer. I want to see if it has an effect on my libido and my ability to game. I think I told you about my hookup with that HB 8 and I couldn't get it up. I've been working out at the gym more instead of paying attention to FB and I feel a lot better. Social media is a huge time killer. You should use that time to elevate your SMV
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Delete it.. Mine also showed low value, but that's not the only reason to delete it. Facebook is like poison to the brain
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.