"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What should I do with my Facebook if it demonstrates low social value?

Yewki

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Just don't add them to facebook. I almost never do. I use facebook purely for people and family I can't go directly hang out with.
This, then change all your info and pics to private so only friends see your stuff. Then stop using FB lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bigneil

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I only have 132 friends, so when a photo recently got 23 likes, that's nearly 20% of my friends.
 

Xombie0991

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I have no friends irl, so not sure how I could use social proof method
 

skinnyguy

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Lol. I'm planning to go no fap and no social media this summer. I want to see if it has an effect on my libido and my ability to game. I think I told you about my hookup with that HB 8 and I couldn't get it up. I've been working out at the gym more instead of paying attention to FB and I feel a lot better. Social media is a huge time killer. You should use that time to elevate your SMV
 

dutchmaster

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Delete it.. Mine also showed low value, but that's not the only reason to delete it. Facebook is like poison to the brain
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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